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Tips for Successful Legislative Advocacy

In April 2016, Kentucky became the first state in the country to pass legislation that mandates private insurance cover prescribed vitamins and supplements for mitochondrial disease patients.

Twice a day our five-year-old daughter takes a compounded mixture of vitamins and supplements known as a “Mito cocktail.” Prescribed by her neurologist, this cocktail has shown many positive results, including increased muscle tone, stamina, stability, and a lessened intention tremor.

To date, the Mito Cocktail is the only treatment currently available for mitochondrial diseases.

However, less than 10% of insurance carriers cover this needed medication. Although Kentucky law already mandated coverage, our private insurance carrier continued to deny coverage every month, even going so far as to insinuate that our daughter takes it for “cosmetic purposes and performance enhancement.”

Frustrated and angry over the blatant wrongdoing by insurance companies, we decided it was time to clarify what was already mandated in existing Kentucky law.

Over the past few months, many have asked for advice so they can duplicate our success in other states. Before offering a few general tips to help get you started, I would be remiss not to mention that, combined, my husband and I  have a legal and policy background. We have good friends who are Kentucky state legislators and we are familiar with the political players of our state. Further, since 2013, we have become vocal, well-known advocates for our daughter through our various social media accounts, our blog, Hope For Katherine Belle,  as a contributing writer for the The Mighty, and by appearing in The New York Times Motherlode Blog. Yes, our careers and platform were instrumental in the speed with which we passed this bill, but don’t be discouraged if you don’t have a similar background.

Finally, I believe timing played an important role in rapid passage. During the same session, Senate Bill 146, known as “Noah’s Law,” called on insurance companies to cover amino acid based formulas, just as we were calling on insurance companies to cover prescribed vitamins and supplements for mitochondrial disease patients. Early passage of Senate Bill 146 and subsequent publicity was fortuitous: Legislators became familiar with the ways insurance companies manipulate language to deny coverage for medically fragile patients. Senate Bill 146 sponsor and physician Senator Ralph Alvardo had another bill filed relating to insurance – Senate Bill 18 – to which the following floor amendment was later added:

HFA2/HM( R. Smart ) – Amend KRS 304.17A-258 to specify that mitochondrial disease is an inborn error of metabolism or genetics to be treated by products defined as “therapeutic food, formulas, and supplements” and that health benefit plans that provide prescription drug coverage shall include in that coverage therapeutic food, formulas, supplements, and low-protein modified food products for the treatment of mitochondrial disease; specify that this act shall take effect January 1, 2017.

Tips for Successful Legislative Advocacy: 

1. The best advocate is an individual personally affected by the proposed legislation. Although a legal and policy background is helpful, it is not required to be an effective advocate for your child or yourself. Advocacy work is not for the faint at heart – it’s a slow, frustrating, deeply personal process, and, arguably, the most crucial part of the  legislative process. With hundreds of bills filed per session, legislators depend on advocates to educate them about a subject matter and, as the expert, you are the most qualified person for the job.

2. Request a face-to-face meeting with your representatives or their staff during the slower months between legislative sessions.
They represent your interests and should be willing to listen to your concerns. Tell your representatives your story. You are the expert; teach them everything they need to know. Schedules are packed during session, so it’s best to establish a relationship well before the start of session – this will give you ample time to tell your story and draft any proposed bill language. Likewise, meeting with legislators is an excellent way to learn more about the internal dynamics of your state legislature. Your legislator may not be able to help you directly, but they can help you navigate your way to the person who can be most helpful. And trust me, if you worked around legislators, you would quickly realize there’s no reason to be intimated by them. Yes, they are public figures, but they’re human just like the rest of us.

3. Do your homework and be specific.
While your personal story is the most powerful component, be prepared to share any relevant medical and scientific research as it relates to your cause. Likewise, you have a much better chance of success if you can present legislators with a complete package of drafted legislation, including where it falls in your state’s statutory scheme, as well as any statistical and economic information related the bill.

4. Create a “buzz” for your cause.
Establishing a “presence” through social media is a powerful tool to communicate your cause. Don’t limit your audience to just your own district or legislator – increase your reach across the entire state. For example, create a Facebook page dedicated to your legislative efforts, contact local media, or involve support organizations to broaden your reach. Ultimately, the bigger the “buzz,” the harder you are to ignore. For example, our daughter’s Facebook page and blog has a strong following. When we made the call for action, people listened and acted. Providing simple to follow links with letters to copy and paste and telephone numbers to dial, our grassroots strategy quickly gained momentum across the state. Voters were voicing their support for SB18 and legislators were listening to what their constituents were telling them. Just as you presented a complete package to your legislator, it’s as important to present a complete package to your supporters.

5. Know your audience and be prepared for the unexpected.
Do your research on the political climate and the key players in your state legislature. Even though your cause should be a non-partisan issue, I cannot emphasize enough the role politics play in the legislative process. Although this may not always be the case, brace yourself for the ugliness that is involved in the making of laws. Understand beforehand that it is within the realm of possibility that your cause will be used as a political football. Powerful opponents may come out against you. Establishing a public presence and creating a “buzz” for your legislation is key leverage should you need it. There is only so much a legislator can do from inside the legislature to get a bill passed. Your outside advocacy strategy may play an even more important role.

6. Never give up.
You are unlikely to succeed the first time you try to pass any legislation. Keep trying. Involve more advocates, make more alliances with key legislators, and never stop advocating for your child. Nothing on this planet is more powerful than a parent’s love for their child.
 

A Year in Review (2014)

Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift.  That is why it is called the present. – Alice Morse Earle

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It’s true that your life can change (for better or worse) in the blink of an eye, only to realize you spent your prior days focused on a future that may never exist.

Learning to live in the present is not easy.  Our lives are filled with clocks,  calendars, and deadlines.  It is nearly impossible not to think about the future.  And not just tomorrow or the next day, but that distant future that lures us in with false promises of happiness.  For most, “someday” is that glorious day when all our dreams come true and the troubles of today fade away.

It is such an enticing place that I have no doubt that most people cannot help but smile when they say the word “someday.”  Up until a little over a year ago, I was always dreaming about “someday.”  I remember thinking someday I will have more free time, find a more fulfilling job, have my house exactly the way I imagine…

On Friday, August 30, 2013, at around 7:30 p.m. my glorious someday ceased to exist as I received the devastating news that my daughter is  dying of an incurable metabolic disease.  In an instant, someday became so scary and painful that my mind tried to obliterate the concept entirely.  I hated that day and never wanted to see it.  I wasted so many years fantasizing about a day that I now dread with every fiber of my being.

My best analogy I can think of that most accurately describes in words the challenges of the past year requires an imaginary exercise:

You’re asleep and having your normal dreams when all of a sudden you are thrown into the middle of a big, cold ocean.  It’s really stormy, huge waves keep crashing over you, and you’re all alone.  You’re not the best swimmer, but somehow you don’t drown even though you are very fatigued and scared.  You are in survival mode.  You don’t remember how you got there, nor do you think about how long you’re going to be there.  You are there and you will die if you stop swimming.  Sometimes you tell yourself that you are asleep and it’s all just a nightmare, yet it’s not.  It’s beyond your understanding, but it is really happening.

You pray and ask God why this is happening?  Is this part of His plan?  In time you will understand His plan a little better and learn to trust it more than question it. And by doing so, you will find some peace.

Although nobody can pull you out of the water, many boats pass by and give you support (prayers, a life vest, encouragement, a boat, an ore, a compass, food, a fishing pole, water, etc.).  The boats that help far outweigh the ones that don’t.   Slowly but surely you become more familiar with your surroundings.  You are still vulnerable to the elements and storms, but you are paddling your boat the best you can one day at a time.  Over time you meet others in that vast ocean; people just like you.  You are not alone.

Navigating rare disease is much like learning to survive alone in the middle of a big, stormy ocean.  You really are left on your own to learn how to survive.  The sad reality is there are many barriers in our healthcare system.  Sure, there are benefits, but there is nothing worse than when the system fails your three year old. Sometimes in life you have to be your own life preserver.  And if you do it the right way, you may have to the opportunity to help others along the way.

I have learned a great deal about myself this past year.  It is amazing how little you fear when you are face-to-face with your worst fear.  After reviewing our work for 2014, I feel good about our accomplishments.  This list confirms we are not only surviving, which is a major accomplishment alone, BUT we are fighting.  And, based on the comments and letters I’ve received from so many this year, we are also helping others.   I have no doubt that God is with us on this journey and fully trust that His plan is far better than my once imagined “someday,” for better or worse.

A Year in Review (2014)

Advocacy

  • First article about our family was published in The New York Times, When the Diagnosis Is Rare, Parents May Know More Than Professionals;
  • Hope for KB sign campaign has received hundreds of photographs from around the world and from several notable celebrities, including Courtney Cox, Josh Hopkins, & Colin Hanks;
  • Made a short video about rare disease to share with Congress and on social media;
  • Encouraged individuals to write to Congressional members and ask them to join the Rare Disease Caucus. To date, Rep. Brett Guthrie, Rep. Andy Barr, and Rep. John Yarmuth have joined;
  • The Kentucky House of Representatives issued a Citation for Rare Disease Day (2013) and we took Katherine to the House floor to give a face to rare disease as the Citation was read by Representative Sannie Overly;
  • Hope for Katherine Belle has established a good following through social media networks, including Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter;
  • First blog post published on January 27, 2014.  To date we have published 31 posts detailing our journey.  Total reach is 45,049 views in almost every country around the globe;
  • Invited by the Rare Disease United Foundation to be included in Beyond the Diagnosis Art Exhibit at Brown University’s Alpert Medical School. The exhibit will travel to medical schools and hospitals across the country as a way of raising awareness about the many unmet needs of the rare disease community;
  • I have been invited (and accepted) to serve on the Board of Advisors for NGLY-1 Foundation and RUN (Rare and Undiagnosed Network); and
  • Dave offered legal assistance for several families (pro-bono) in their insurance appeals for genetic coverage.

Medical

  • Exhausted all testing at the Cleveland Clinic and received a 90% diagnosis of Infantile Neuroaxonal Dystrophy (INAD); received a third opinion from an INAD expert in Oregon of unlikely for INAD;
  • Appealed insurance denial for INAD test (won);
  • Researched every article available for INAD and similar diseases and performed genetic research on both sides of our families;
  • Participated in our first clinical study (NC Genes) at UNC – Chapel Hill.  We are awaiting whole exome results from this study (July 2015);
  • Second whole exome test through GeneDx.  Awaiting results (April – at the earliest – 2015); and
  • Raised $15,680 on KB’s GoFundMe page for whole exome, medical expenses, and travel; and
  • Established emergency care at the University of Kentucky following seizure activity in December. KB is now on seizure medication.

I have crossed paths with so many inspirational people and organizations this year – people whom I never would have met in my previous life.  So many friends, family, and strangers have helped in every single step of 2014.  Nothing was accomplished single handedly.  Nothing.  We have been blessed with phenomenal doctors, lawyers, nurses, techs, geneticists, politicians, clergy, therapists, this list goes on and on.  All the helpers of the world have shown up to help us during our crisis.

As for now I can tell you that Katherine is a very happy child who brings us far more joy than we imagined possible.  She is bright, funny, strong willed, fiercely independent, and delicate and dainty but tough as nails.  I miss her when she’s sleeping, laugh with her when she’s awake, and love watching her personality develop.  She’s my best girl always and forever.

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Learning to live in the present is a hard earned gift – one that has changed my life for the better.  My once “someday” has become my every “today,” and each day is an incredible gift. I look forward to sharing our days and a few goals with you in 2015.  Happy New Year!

How Social Media Impacts Scientific Research

This article in the New Yorker is by far the most important article we’ve read to date that defines our purpose and hope for Katherine Belle.  Thanks to the Mights and Wilseys for confirming what we hope to achieve and proving there are other options than just waiting and hoping science “catches up.”  When parents are given no other option but to create websites and post articles with their genetic data to accelerate research and treatments for our dying children, there is a serious problem with the system.   We are an important part of the diagnostic team and can play a critical role in helping decipher the human genome.  My question is why aren’t more journalists talking about this problem?

Matt Might gave a talk titled “Accelerating Rare Disease.” After describing the effects of his blog post, he told the crowd that it was inevitable that parents of children with other newly discovered diseases would form proactive communities, much as he, Cristina, and the Wilseys had done. Vandana Shashi believes that such communities represent a new paradigm for conducting medical research. “It’s kind of a shift in the scientific world that we have to recognize—that, in this day of social media, dedicated, educated, and well-informed families have the ability to make a huge impact,” she told me. “Gone are the days when we could just say, ‘We’re a cloistered community of researchers, and we alone know how to do this.’

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Rare Diseases: Together We Are Strong

This Friday, February 28, 2014, is “Rare Disease Day.” One in every ten people will suffer from a “rare” disease at some point during his or her life. Why, then, do we call them “rare?”

globalgenes-1.orgThe National Institute of Health defines a “rare disease” as one that affects fewer than 200,000 people in the United States. This definition of a rare disease was included by Congress in the Orphan Drug Act of 1983. There are approximately 7,000 diseases or disorders that qualify for this designation. Alone, each disease is rare. It is only when counted together that they are not.

Because of the Congressional Orphan Drug Act of 1983, the term “orphan disease” is often used interchangeably with “rare disease.” Anyone who suffers from one or, in our case, has a family member who suffers from one, can understand the harsh poetry of that term.  All too often, the sufferers are children. In many ways, they are abandoned by the scientific and medical communities. Few research projects are dedicated to these conditions.  Few doctors specialize in treating them. It is difficult to find support groups. It is hard to find people who understand what it is like to watch a child’s symptoms in ignorance of what is causing them and fear of what they may portend. We face life-changing decisions alone and isolated from any sort of community of peers. We are not just facing the possible suffering or death of a beloved child, but all the things that must be changed before we even know what the future holds.

Can both parents work when our child has obstacles to face? Can we enter into daycare or mainstream schools and risk the viruses and illnesses that can so profoundly affect a child with a rare disease? Can they accommodate a child with the issues our child faces? Is our house fit for someone with a disability? Can we afford to go down to one income? Can we afford to make our house accessible? Can we afford to travel to the physicians that specialize in caring for the rare disease patient? All of this is on top of the harsh reality that we or someone we love may be facing death, and while learning that the road to answers will be long and difficult.

When we were told that Katherine likely suffered from Infantile Neuroaxonal Dystrophy or “INAD,” we searched for as much information as we could find on this condition. We had never even heard of it before the neurologist uttered the words.  And it is no wonder. We read that there are only nine children in the United States that are confirmed to have that condition right now, and only around 1,000 that have ever been diagnosed with it here. These numbers do not come from scientific sources, so we cannot stand by their accuracy, but the one thing we do know is that it is extremely rare.globalgenes.org

Compare this to cancer or heart disease.  Most people have been touched by both. Even small towns have more people currently living with cancer or heart disease than have ever had INAD in the history of the United States.

It is understandable that we donate our charitable dollars to studying conditions we know all too well.  We race for cures and donate to heart associations. When Congress or state legislatures set aside government research dollars, most of it goes to conditions well-known to voters.  On top of this, private corporations spend their money researching new drug therapies and procedures that will make them money. There is not much money to be made from nine INAD children compared to the billions to be made off of each new cancer therapy or even a minor improvement in a heart stint.

Yes, we are orphans.  We are alone, with voices too small and too few in number to be heard. This is why awareness matters. If our small choir stands united with the choirs formed by families faced with the other rare diseases, we are not small, we are not few in number, and we are not powerless. Alone we are rare.  Together we are strong.

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There are concrete things we can change for the better.

One of the things we learned early on in our search for a diagnosis for our daughter is that these conditions are difficult to diagnose. Most “rare diseases” have a genetic cause. Our current neurologist analogized diagnosing a genetic-based condition to editing a book. This particular book consists of detailed chapters on how to build a person.  It defines how each cell is constructed, will operate, will replicate, will repair itself and will be stacked to create bones, tissue, brain cells and our whole body. Current estimates are that there are around 26,000 genes in the human body (somewhere between 23,000 and 30,000 by current estimates, excluding a lot of “non-coding DNA,” which is not well understood), translating in this analogy to 26,000 chapters to edit.The genes range from a few thousand DNA bases to over two million bases per gene, translating in this analogy to chapters of a few thousand to a couple million words each. That is a very large book to edit.

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What’s in your genes?

Most of these chapters–or genes–come in duplicate. One “chapter” comes from mom and one from dad.  You have to know how each duplicate chapter works when the instructions are different (in our family, mom’s instructions usually prevail, but that is not always the case in genetics), and you have to know how these chapters work in unison to know how the construction is to proceed. On top of all of this, environmental factors work into the equation. How does a virus, a toxin or a trauma factor into the blueprint when the body is being constructed? How do the chapters, themselves, define that reaction?

To top it off, we all have hundreds, if not thousands, of typos and omissions.  Some typos do not mean much, if anything.  Some change the entire meaning of the story.  Some we simply do not know.

This editing process ends up taking a lot of time and costing a lot of money. By way of example from our circumstances, for INAD, we know that typos and omissions in the chapter or gene titled “PLA2G6” are known to lead to INAD. However, this is true only 90% of the time. In the other 10% of known cases, no typos exist in these chapters and science just has not discovered another cause.  So, we began with a chance that our child has INAD that this test – this edit – would not detect.

There are duplicate PLA2G6 chapters, and the condition is recessive, meaning that you have to have typos in both mom’s PLA2G6 chapter and dad’s PLA2G6 chapter for the child to have INAD.

Each of these chapters is written in script so small that our most advanced machines cannot accurately read them. As far as chapter PLA2G6, the test accurately detects known typos and omissions in a given chapter 85% of the time. In other words, they have used the test against genes that have been confirmed to contain INAD-causing typos, and only find them 85% of the time.  The known typos are missed the other 15% of the time; we simply cannot read all the words. Since typos have to exist in both mom’s and dad’s PLA2G6 chapters, however, if no errors are detected in either chapter, the condition is unlikely to be present (there is only a 2.25% likelihood that errors would be present, but missed, in both parents’ PLA2G6 genes).

So, running the INAD test can result in different outcomes: (1) both mom’s and dad’s PLA2G6 have typos of a sort known to cause INAD, in which case the child is diagnosed as having it; (2) either mom’s or dad’s PLA2G6 is detected to have such an error, but not the other one, in which case, the child may be deemed likely to have INAD based on clinical manifestations of INAD and the 15% non-detection error rate in the other “normal” gene; (3) neither parent has PLA2G6 errors that are detected, in which case, the child still may have it because of the 15% error rate in each PLA2G6 editing (a 2.25% chance), or because of the atypical INAD cases where there is some other cause; or (4) errors are detected in the PLA2G6 genes, but not of a sort known to cause INAD, in which case the results are a firm “we don’t know.” The end result is a definite diagnosis of INAD, a “maybe,” a “probably not,” or a “who knows,” but never a “no.”

The cost for these tests can run at around $2,000 each.  That’s right, $2,000 to test for just one condition of 7,000. Run the math. At $2,000 per test for 7,000 tests, the cost would be $14 million to edit all of the chapters known to cause “rare diseases.” Truth be told, the math is not that simple.  Some tests are cheaper, while others are more expensive. In no case would they run all 7,000, as many conditions can be eliminated based on clinical signs or other blood or urine tests. However, the reality remains that many of these rare diseases share symptoms and it is often necessary to run multiple expensive tests over the course of years to finally reach a diagnosis.  At the end of this long and expensive road, the physicians only come up with a definitive diagnosis half of the time. The other half of the time, we know there is some sort of metabolic disease, some rare condition, but we just do not know what it is. Our editing skills have not advanced to the point of knowing where to look for typos or what they mean.

No one can realistically edit all 7,000 chapters associated with these diseases, so doctors look for reasons to pull a particular chapter for editing. To do so, they perform less expensive (but not cheap) tests to try to figure out which chapter to edit. An MRI and MRS result justified the INAD test for Katherine.  It turned out negative (but not ruling out INAD, as discussed above).  So we move on to look for reasons to pull the next chapter.  She had an abnormality in her acylcarnitine profile. We’ve run it again.  If it turns out abnormal a second time, we have reason to suspect it may be one of the 30 known fatty acid or organic acid disorders, narrowing it down to 30 new chapters we might have to pull and edit. 30 edits at $2,000 each is still $60,000. It beats $14 million, but is still pretty expensive, particularly when there is a 50% chance that it will result in nothing definitive. We also have a follow up MRI/MRS, a genetic ophthalmologist appointment, and a spinal tap. We also are awaiting results from a skin biopsy.  All of these will provide hints at what chapter to pull next for an edit.

Thank goodness for that insurance, right? Wrong.

In most cases, genetic testing is not covered by insurance. In other cases (like our’s) genetic testing is covered under limited circumstances.  Insurance companies are in the business of collecting premiums, not paying claims. Therefore, it is rarer than these diseases for an insurance company to find the limited circumstances to be met.

The reason why genetic testing is routinely excluded from insurance policies or claims are rejected is simple: rare disease patients are easy to ignore, and expensive to hear. It costs nothing for the insurance company to let Katherine die, and $60,000 to see why her acylcarnitine profile is high, much less millions to see if she can be saved.

We are literal parents to figurative orphans left to die by harsh economic realities.

Considering she was thought to be the tenth child alive with INAD, she could be rejected without fear of economic backlash.  All ten of us could march away in anger and it would help, not hurt, the insurers’ bottom lines.  And what is our alternative? Are we to go uninsured?  Are we to buy another policy if it, too, has a “let her die” policy toward genetic testing and rare diseases?

We have chosen a different alternative: To join together and be heard. We can change things for the better. We can put economic pressure on insurance companies to cover genetic testing.  We can put pressure on politicians to force them to cover it. We can force states to increase newborn screening.  We can expand awareness and education of the signs and symptoms of rare diseases. We can expand the flow of money into research of the genetic roots of all disease, including cancer and heart disease, leading to advances in the fight against the rare ones.  We can let the lucky 90% know our cause, as many will join our choir if they just know the song.

This is for your benefit. At a 10% overall rare disease rate in the United States, it will affect your family. It is a matter of when, not if. Help us change things for the better before you discover that you or your “Katherine Belle” is among that 10%, an orphan to the medical community and a burden left to die by your insurance company.

With this blog, we stand up to join the chorus.  We are singing at the top of our lungs.   We contacted our state elected officials.  Kentucky Governor Steven Beshear has proclaimed February 28, 2014, as Rare Disease Day in Kentucky; Representative Sannie Overly will read a Rare Disease Day citation in the Kentucky House of Representatives.  It may not matter to many of you (yet, but it will affect all of you eventually) but it matters to us.  Katherine’s voice matters.  Katherine’s life matters. It is worth more than $60,000.  It is worth more than $14 million.

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And, we will not go quietly.  We will be heard.

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How can you help?  First, you can share this post with everyone you know to help us raise awareness.  Second, change your Facebook profile picture (see different examples below) to show your support for Rare Disease Day.  Third, encourage your local, state and federal officials to recognize Rare Disease Day. Fourth, wear a denim ribbon on Friday to show your support (jeans for genes) and tell people why you are doing so.

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The steps of the Kentucky State Capitol, House of Representatives.

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wp-filebase_thumb.phpClick links below for additional information:

The Global Genes Project

Rare Disease Day

Rare Disease Day USA

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Coping and Advocacy

If you have read our other posts, “Faith. Hope. Love.,” “Death and Resurrection” and “Dance! Dance!, ” you will know much of our individual stories leading up to the moment when our universe was turned upside down.  As Dave has explained, on Friday, August 30, 2013, we received a phone call that forever changed our lives.  This was a call from a neurologist telling us our two year old daughter, Katherine Belle, likely has a rare and progressive genetic disease.

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What immediately followed was complete and utter numbness, disbelief, and unbearable pain.  It was so hard to believe that the world was still spinning when it felt as though it had suddenly stopped and literally knocked me off my feet.

I do not remember much of the moments, days, or even weeks following this devastating news, but I do recall repeatedly asking Dave to explain to me once again what disease the doctor said he believed Katherine had.  The name was so unfamiliar.

We soon learned that INAD is very rare.  Naturally, I wanted to know more about this vicious intruder who had taken our family hostage and threatened to kill my only child, but truthfully, I was afraid to look in those early days.  I did not want to read what science had to say about my daughter’s fate and our future.

Infantile Neuroaxonal Dystrophy (INAD) is now a name I know all too well.  And, after my mother read about the affects of this rare disease, and told me she wanted to take a “sledgehammer to her computer,”  I could completely relate.  It took me a while, but ever so slowly, each day I was able to read more and more about INAD until finally I knew what everybody did not want me to know. Right then I knew that we had involuntarily become a part of science. INAD is so rare, in fact, there are only two labs in the entire country that do this genetic test.  Yet somehow, it had found its way to our doorstep.

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By mid-October, (which felt like two years later) we had entered into the “coping” phase of our journey.  The immediate numbness wore off, but today we live on an emotional roller coaster that quickly shifts gears from anger, denial, grief and depression, and is susceptible to change minute-to-minute, hour-to-hour, day-to-day.  We have been to grief counseling and joined support groups.  Mostly, though, we try to maintain as much routine as possible for Katherine Belle so she has a sense of structure and security.  This is not an easy task when some days all I want to do is crawl into my bed and cry.

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Needless to say, our lives were forever changed with this news. Sick time donations from kind and loving co-workers has afforded me the opportunity to spend as much time with Katherine as allowed while we face the difficult decision whether or not we are financially able to make the transition to a single income family with growing medical bills. (Dave has Type 1 Diabetes and is insulin pump dependent.) My husband’s co-workers have cooked us weekly meals.  Friends and family have offered financial assistance. We are currently in the process of selling our home to lower our mortgage payment and move into a handicap accessible home. Our doctor is in Cleveland, which is a six-hour drive.  We’ve already appealed (and won!) a denied insurance claim.  I take Katherine to occupational and physical therapy appointments twice a week.   And, although that genetic test for INAD came back negative, as of today, we live in that “unknown” diagnosis phase where “atypical” INAD is still on the table (Dave will explain more in his next post).

However, I do feel like we are the luckier ones.  We are finding strength on this journey.  We have learned the true importance of living in the moment, and we have the constant support of family, friends and even strangers who give us courage, strength, hope and love. We have so much hope. And faith.  And love. Even if science never catches up with our own daughter, we hope and will actively advocate for others. And, as I am learning, there are many things that science cannot explain.

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The medical aspect of our story is overwhelming and we’ve had to assimilate a ton of information quickly amidst our grief.  It is true that your doctors and therapists become your family. We are all partners and advocates for Katherine Belle.  We all have hope. We are all advocates for a cure.

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As we take on more of an advocacy role not only for our own daughter, but for others who share this unimaginable journey of hope and survival, we want to arm you with as much information as possible to share in your own communities.  It takes a village. As the Rare Disease Day slogan says, “Alone we are rare.  Together we are strong.”

Rare Disease Day is February 28, 2014.  Dave will soon share more information about rare diseases, our own advocacy efforts, and what we are facing in the coming months and years.  In the meantime, please take a moment to read about Rare Disease Day on Facebook and share information and links with your networks.

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– See more at: http://rarediseaseday.us/raise-your-hand/#sthash.27mf09Uw.dpuf

*Hope for Katherine Belle did not receive any monetary contributions for this post.